Desire is not rare. Commitment is.
Most people want change without loss. They want growth without endings. They want a new identity that does not require releasing the old one.
This is why progress stalls.
Becoming is not an upgrade. It is an exchange.
Every version of you requires the retirement of another. Time, habits, roles, and loyalties cannot all be carried forward. Something must be put down.
This is not punishment. It is physics.
Transformation that refuses to acknowledge cost becomes fantasy. Transformation that accepts cost becomes momentum.
You do not become who you want by wanting.
You become her by choosing what you are willing to leave behind.